He must have felt the same way ten years ago when he watched me show more interest in my makeup than my unclothed husband walking out of the shower. I really am done trying. It took a bit of time to build up the energy to click it because like I said I think my best bet is giving up on that fantasy. Unlike our 6 years of dating with great and fairly regular sex, she developed the wedding cake disease not interested in sex anymore almost from the start and gradually got to the point where it is almost non existent. Do loved ones value "form" or "substance" more? I love him so much and have not meant to hurt him as I have. I totally understand where you are coming from.
Duty sex is unacceptable. However he works just as hard as I do, and deserves to feel loved and appreciated because he truly is. I am a psychotherapist and printed it out to share with clients--and I will make the point that it can apply to either partner. No woman wants to lie there and be used like a spittoon. Dan, You are a one in a million man. You catch a whiff of her freshly washed hair and suddenly your mind jumps to how nice it would be to get her naked.
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That's a bunch of crap, no Submitted by Anonymous on May 6, - 9: Then she gets home, I make dinner and take care of the baby, do laundry because I don't have shit to wear the next day and dishes after dinner I have tried everything — counselors etc. I encourage you to refer your spouse to this article because I believe that thinking through some of this will be helpful. I told her I was too tired and hated my job. Being independent or differentiated as D Schnarch calls it actually increases your capacity for intimacy. Voice your sexual fantasy; practise it with your spouse.
I feel like she tricked me into staying. I thought men were shallow and only wanted sex; I withdrawn myself from any kinds of affection most times. I know it sounds terrible, but I actually hope Emily can start fresh with someone new, Philip seems like a lost cause. He became better able to articulate his feelings and experiences, and I became better able to hear him without my own insecurities getting in the way. Too bad too, she could learn something Reply I am a high libido wife married to a low libido husband who was high drive in previous relationships. Oh please Submitted by Anony moose on August 19, - 9: I read somewhere that there is a gadget that can be worn when sleeping that can help open the blocked wind pipe.